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ava's blog 3 days ago

seeing the person behind the piece

Edit: This post was being rapidly upvoted by bots for some reason. The issue has been fixed and the fake upvotes removed. Something I noticed as a consequence of online culture and platform design, especially on social media: It is very common online to follow an account not for the person behind it, but the way they present and discuss a topic or niche, even if they aren’t doing this with a professional intent or style. Then when the topics shift or we get tired of the person, people try to find someone else that scratches the itch. It’s like we use people online to engage with topics by proxy, and they are rather replaceable. We don’t just watch crochet videos, we watch this specific person crochet, but not for her as a person, and so on. People seem to have roles to fill in terms of who they follow, and they’ll move on if the role is no longer adequately filled, or the roles change. Feeds are highly curated; too many posts considered off-topic and you are ruining the vibe. In my experience, on the personal web, I really enjoy the culture of people being genuinely interested in learning about someone else. Seems like the general question is “ What’s that person up to? ” There is a wish to see life from the perspective of them, read their diary, explore their interests through their lens, and an acceptance that this person doesn’t necessarily write for you, but more likely for themselves (or at least, also for themselves). From the responses I get via e-mail or blog posts, people seem to respect that this is the specific situation of a stranger, and they’ll compare it with their own. There is a distinct separation. Yet, when my posts breach containment and land on link aggregators or social media, a different crowd shows up. In my experience, people coming from, and heavily using, social media that lets you reshare (reblog/retweet etc) a post onto your own profile tend to read posts as if they are meant to be self-inserts. What I mean is: Every post or article they come across is read as if they are judging whether this crosses a threshold of when they feel like sharing it onto their profiles to be like “ that’s soooo me! ”. Because that’s what happens with, I’d say, most reshares you put your name and picture to: You adopt what this person said and say it too. People find your profile and see everything you reshared as an endorsement, as something you re-say with your own voice. And when this type of person reads my posts, it feels like they do so with tunnel vision, with completely disregarding anything that doesn’t fit into how they see themselves and their own situation. They just wanna plunder my posts for parts that fit enough, so they can plaster it across their feeds as something that represents them, and are mad when there is something in there that is too different from their experience, something they wouldn’t co-sign… and therefore just ignore it or dismiss it, or accuse me of lying. Their responses, while almost never super rude, are at least not empathetic enough in the sense that they write criticisms as if I told a lie about their own life; a life that is extremely different to mine. It seems like for this type of person, the human being behind it doesn’t count at all. Every “content” someone puts out is a meme; further ammo to use to further their view on their own situation, or as self-promotion on their own internet presences. The source is forgettable and irrelevant, because in 5 minutes, they’ll find the next thing to consume. Single use entertainment. It’s just words written by someone else to take into their mouth and spit at the feed 1 , and maybe get upvotes and likes for something they had no hand in. I wouldn’t even mind as much, if it wouldn’t result in a completely warped picture of what I wrote about or what the conclusion is, while posing self-confidently as an expert in the comments trying to give advice or “correct” my experience. And people challenging those is rare because everyone is tired of beefing with random strangers over semantics. Did all this come from the way we are expected to engage with professional content creators who decidedly make mass-appeal content you are support to insert yourself in, and we end up applying it to almost everyone online? How do we feel being treated like a TV channel or magazine? You can be an inspiration, a pastime and distraction to someone; how does that make you feel? Can you withstand the pressure to box yourself in so you are more fitting for the role? Are you beating yourself up for falling short of a label you applied to your blog? Are you already thinking of the brand you have inadvertently built? Are you ready to tear it down over and over again? Published 06 Aug, 2026 Feeds I cannot even properly access or see, because they are all on extremely locked down Mastodon instances which are either completely inaccessible or unusable (bad or no search/content navigation) without an account, which genuinely pisses me off a lot. It's similar to how much info is locked inside Discord servers. You all profit from posting easily accessible public stuff like my blog, but the people create that stuff out cannot even take a peek what you're saying about them. So much for the "better alternatives" and being "open". It's not more open to me than Instagram or X, who also wall their content to death. At least be so kind and send me a direct link via mail, since search engines don't even pick it up either. ↩ Feeds I cannot even properly access or see, because they are all on extremely locked down Mastodon instances which are either completely inaccessible or unusable (bad or no search/content navigation) without an account, which genuinely pisses me off a lot. It's similar to how much info is locked inside Discord servers. You all profit from posting easily accessible public stuff like my blog, but the people create that stuff out cannot even take a peek what you're saying about them. So much for the "better alternatives" and being "open". It's not more open to me than Instagram or X, who also wall their content to death. At least be so kind and send me a direct link via mail, since search engines don't even pick it up either. ↩

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Unsung 5 days ago

“Some guy named Paul”

An interesting 20-minute Config talk from the Instagram designer Rose McManus: = 2x) and (width >= 700px)" srcset="https://unsung.aresluna.org/_media/some-guy-named-paul/yt1-play.2096w.avif" type="image/avif"> = 3x) or (width >= 700px)" srcset="https://unsung.aresluna.org/_media/some-guy-named-paul/yt1-play.1600w.avif" type="image/avif"> It covers some of the same areas we recently talked about: diacritics and Polish S (and a fun video about English conventions from a while back ), but it tackles them on a higher level. McManus talks about how people express themselves via their usernames, how that changes in various countries of the world and for what reasons, how it intersects with some UI considerations, and how people use it creatively – and also, sometimes, abuse it. This is the K-pop star IU. Uh her Instagram handle is “dlwlrma.” And I think at first this maybe seems already like complete hyperreality, like it’s bearing no relationship with her Hangul name, or even with her stage name. But actually, I think this is at the third stage of Baudrillard’s theory because really “dlwlrma” is Lee Ji-eun’s Hangul name typed out on a Korean keyboard but backwards, distorted, while that keyboard is set to render Latin characters, almost like a cipher. And then her display name is her Hangul name typed out with one of the characters changed, so it’s like a pun. I didn’t feel the talk stuck the landing – in the end, I wasn’t very sure why the decision that was made was made. But there’s a whole lot of stuff before that was fascinating and thought-provoking. #conference talk #localization #youtube

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ava's blog 1 weeks ago

we don't shame smart glasses wearers enough

Wombat sent me the above picture: A physical ad by Apple on a big canvas. Pictured is a person hiding their face with their iPhone, but therefore actually pointing the camera at the people seeing the ad. It says: " Safari. A browser that's actually private. " and " Privacy. That's iPhone. " It's accidentally perfectly demonstrating the limitations in current popular privacy discourse and movement: The fact that devices or software may claim to keep the users private, but not people in general, especially not the people the users point these devices at. Privacy, as it is commonly practiced and advertised, is for the person inflicting the damage onto their surroundings, not their surroundings. Privacy, in the mainstream, is seen as this highly personal, individualized thing; something you buy into, switch into, invest time becoming "good" at. Everyone is fending for themselves, arming up on their own. Your choices seem to reflect something about your values and how well you understand the topic. The goalposts get moved fairly frequently: " Oh you still use that company? They aren't actually that good. Switch to the other one instead. " " Wait, you think only using this browser extension and a VPN is enough? You are a dumb little child. If you don't use these more extreme measures, you might as well not try. " It lends itself to a certain demographic cosplaying as state targets and playing evil hacker because they feel cool using Kali Linux. Meanwhile, a lot of popular privacy content online is essentially a whole ad break, together with bad news about what Big Tech recently did that you can then reshare with people to get upset about together, driving up engagement and that's it. It doesn't tell you why something is bad, what you can do to stop it, what rights you have, or other actionable steps besides " Switch if you can, I guess. But use my sign-up code and/or subscribe to the newsletter. ". At other times, it's just empty complaining - what should be, could be, maybe is illegal, but no drive to find out, confirm, or what initiatives and ways exist to make it so. The general message often seems to be: If you don't conform to what is currently being recommended by this or that privacy community, you shouldn't complain. You did it to yourself! You chose to use all that and not switch. Therefore, you invited it and were okay with this happening to you. Or otherwise: It is all futile. I'm not going to pretend people do not have any agency in what products they use, and I am always in favor of people switching to less bad alternatives. Otherwise, I would not have no accounts on social media platforms and not use Linux or Tuta, for example. However, it is also incredibly stupid to pretend the change towards better alternatives is always effortless and affordable, or that competitors are always comparable or even exist. Even Apple has spotted the potential goldmine of privacy a while ago, not just to set themselves apart from data-hungry competitor Google, but also recognizing that in our current society, privacy is a privilege and is becoming one more and more. Knowing the "right" products and being able to buy into them is a flex, it sets you apart. You can feel like you are treating yourself, like you are investing into a good thing. Understanding privacy as a right, being informed about what tech companies do, and what effects it has or can have on your life and the lives of others and then also doing something about it is a highly intellectual affair that many of us in the privacy space underestimate. It perfectly fits to Apple's health-conscious, society-conscious, upper class brand image. We tend to underestimate how costly it can really be to no longer want to support certain companies, be in control of our own data, and no longer be the product being sold. From your own VPS to domains and paying for traffic, YubiKeys etc., a new PC that is more compatible with a Linux distro, an iPhone (or if you can, replacing whatever you have with a phone that can run GrapheneOS), the much higher priced plan on other email suite providers than it is on Google, paying for search engines, paying for a reputable VPN provider, and so on. Do you have to do all that? No. Lots of privacy-respecting stuff is FOSS, and not everyone has the same need for privacy (compare the average Joe to an investigative journalist!). But not all of it is free; a lot of products in the privacy space might have a free tier, but their other tiers simply offer more (alleged) privacy. That doesn't even touch the costs of just not playing the game - not having a smartphone, not having social media, and so on. All of it leaves out that you can go to the most extreme measures and are still victim of the privacy practices of others. The best privacy-conscious service can still leak your data. Your devices can still become compromised. Your family members, friends, partner(s), coworkers and the like still have pictures of you on their phone which sync to the cloud, still chat with you on their data-hungry devices, still put information about you in an LLM or nudify a picture of you, still navigate to your address with Google Maps, and post your group selfie on Instagram or Facebook. When you enter their homes, you are in the presence of home assistants like Alexa, or their indoor pet cameras. When you walk outside, you are increasingly filmed with strangers' doorbell Ring cameras. You sit in restaurants and cafés, and walk through the city, while being in the background of some YouTube videos and TikTok dances. People film and post you without your knowledge or consent to gain internet likes because you looked odd. Cars have more and more sensors and cameras for both the people inside and the world outside. Cities everywhere are investing into AI-assisted camera surveillance and make contracts with Palantir and Flock. More and more law enforcement is wearing body cams (for both good and bad reasons). And, of course, you got people walking around with smart glasses now! Surveillance is fun when you're the one doing it; after all, we have always had people in our society that love being informers, block wardens and spies. Now, by appealing to the feeling of having control over others, documenting all our lives, having video proof of interactions and even more material to feed into LLMs for self-optimization, large corporations market their new surveillance systems for private use under the guise of individual security, productivity or entertainment, which ultimately undermines the security and freedom of us all. Webaligo fittingly writes: " The cost of comprehensive surveillance has fallen so far, so fast, that the central reason tyranny used to burn itself out - the sheer human expense of paying enough people to watch everyone else - has simply evaporated. The bottleneck is gone. You no longer need a nation of informers. You need a vendor contract. " This is where we need to come together, and aside from structural changes, make it personal. When someone buys and wears smart glasses, it should be made clear to them that they are considered a massive asshole committing a social fauxpas and are unwelcome in any space. It doesn't even matter much that they are a mindless consumer following tech trends without question; they wouldn't be alone in that, and that is not a crime. But: They are trading the rights of others for the chance at cosplaying a Sci-Fi movie until the novelty wears off. They try to flex with an expensive product with an inherent power imbalance between wearer and environment to compensate for something. They choose to invest a lot of money into ethically untenable companies for a product that is entirely optional and does not add any value. After all, we have object and facial recognition capabilities already built into our fucking brains. They are fine with being seen as a creep who is filming and taking pictures of people without their consent, even children, and adding to the general constant surveillance of us all. These glasses are also vulnerable to attacks, and I'm sure if nudifier apps are already a thing now, it won't take long for live nudification on the glasses. Them wearing smart glasses is in solidarity with the panopticon we are in, with all the pranksters, pickup artist, street interviewers and other online scum who embarrass, scare and harass strangers (especially women) to generate views on social media, and all the disgusting people who generate nudes of people non-consensually via AI. All that is its main draw, its main purpose, its main user group. Smart glasses wearers can tell people all they want that they are not like that, but no one should believe that. They rely on people not being able to spot the glasses, not knowing what the consequences are, or not knowing what the recording light is for, and their reassurances are worthless as other wearers modify their glasses so the recording light is always off. Meta is also currently testing a prototype feature called "super sensing" where the glasses would always record, all day - that's the goal. There is no justification for wanting to have the features it has if you are not morally bankrupt. You have to understand that the wearers are playing a significant part in not only gathering faces in motion (for companies like Clearview.AI), but also training spatial data for AI to act in three-dimensional space - eye, head and body movements, hand-eye-coordination and more. This, undoubtedly, will not only be used in autonomous AI weapons, but any context where bots are supposed to replace humans negatively. There is only so much shit you can gather underneath your shoes before you can no longer blame everyone else for thinking you're the asshole; or rather, glasshole . So don't let them off the hook about owning the pervert glasses. Don't let it go. Ask them if they're recording, or better, ask them to take them off. Tell them being a walking CCTV for daddy Zuckerberg isn't a personality and no one is impressed about another tech bro who can't experience reality and has to dehumanize everyone around them to feel good. Kick them out. Published 01 Aug, 2026

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Taranis 1 weeks ago

Amnesty International's Taken-Down Article on the UK Anti-Rights Movement

Retrieved from: https://archive.org/details/report-a-growing-threat-the-anti-rights-movement-in-the-uk-july Since it's quite likely that archive.org will be the next target, I strongly suggest that people download and republish this file as widely as possible. For what it's worth, I believe Amnesty International wrote the original in good faith, and published it because it was the right thing to do. That they caved to pressure from an onslaught of lawsuits funded by the deep pockets of a billionaire (who has a personal beef with Amnesty for other reasons, but I'll not go into that here) is not to Amnesty's credit. I believe that their retraction was made under duress. Let the Streissand effect roll.

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Stratechery 1 weeks ago

Vacation: Week of July 27

Stratechery is on vacation the week of July 27. There will be no Weekly Article or Updates. The next Update will be on Monday, August 3. Sharp Tech , and Greatest of All Talk   will also return the week of August 3.  Sharp China  and  Asianometry  will continue to publish, and there will be one episode of Dithering next week. The full Stratechery posting schedule is  here .

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DHH 2 weeks ago

Sitting down with Senra

Jason and I have been making the same argument for over a quarter of a century now: Small teams can do incredible things when they embrace their constraints. And when they work in software or media or other intellectual realms, they don't need loads of capital to get going, so they can skip the investor rat race, focus on their edge, and find customers to fund the journey. With the rise of AI, this argument has never been more potent. When Jason and I got started, you could only do this if you had the skills to build everything with your own hands. You had to be a designer or a programmer to skip taking other people's money. But now, incredibly, The Idea Guy really does have a place and a path. This old-and-new reality is what I sat down to talk with David Senra about in Malibu. Which was kinda meta, because Senra himself has run our playbook, built an incredible podcast success, and is killing it without investors to answer to as well. And while it's not just about the money, the money is nice too! That's a central part of this claim. Making "yellow Lamborghini money" is far more achievable when it can be done bootstrapping a business to, say, $5–10M/year in revenue. No venture capitalist is going to let you settle for that! They'd rather kill the business than let it stall out there. It's unicorn or bust. That's their business model. And it's fine, btw! I've actually come to appreciate far more the fruits of these big bets than I did when we got started. The world needs Shopify, Spotify, and SpaceX, to take just three examples of VC-powered success stories starting with S. But you have to know what you want. If your aspiration is to run a meaningful part of world commerce or send rockets to Mars, I think you should swing for those fences, knowing that the odds are stacked sorely against you. I'm just not that ambitious! What I am, at times, is obsessed with quality, control, and independence. And we stayed a "lifestyle business" primarily because Jason and I shared that obsession. Letting nobody tell us no, having zero expectations to carry but our own, and just focusing on building great software with a small team of superb employees with the best odds we could arrange. Senra and I talk about this in many different ways. Like how James Cameron's original Terminator movie, shot on a shoestring, is a far superior movie to Avatar because of the constraints. Or how this Polish kid Vaxry was able to make a far more compelling window manager from his dormitory than Apple or Microsoft could do with a trillion-dollar market cap. Constraints provide the pressure that produce diamonds. But we also talked about the bigger threats to business than just whether you take funding or not. How the early 2020s saw a horde of White Walkers march upon the Wall, and how entrepreneurs of all stripes eventually came to see the common threat to capitalism, prosperity, and self-determination in woke menance. And how Marc Andreessen turned out to be pivotal in our personal battle with these malevolent forces. Fate loves irony! Anyway, if any of these topics resonate, I think you'll appreciate the episode. It's also less demanding on your time than the Lex marathon from last summer, and you'll only be asked for an hour and a half of your time. Enjoy!

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Robin Moffatt 2 weeks ago

THE ONLY WINNING MOVE IS NOT TO PLAY

Having clankers churn out content to feed the clankers is a futile game to play. It’s an arms-race to the bottom of a cesspit.

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Unsung 2 weeks ago

“Something seems to be going crucially wrong with the frame rate.”

Let’s Game It Out is a YouTube channel where Josh Knoles occasionally grabs a modern videogame and tries to play it in a particularly creative way – finding bugs, breaking things, doing an action more times than anyone thought possible. What makes it even more fun is that what’s tested often are early access , unfinished games. Here’s an example 27-minute video of a game called Parking Tycoon: = 2x) and (width >= 700px)" srcset="https://unsung.aresluna.org/_media/something-seems-to-be-going-crucially-wrong-with-the-frame-rate/yt1-play.2096w.avif" type="image/avif"> = 3x) or (width >= 700px)" srcset="https://unsung.aresluna.org/_media/something-seems-to-be-going-crucially-wrong-with-the-frame-rate/yt1-play.1600w.avif" type="image/avif"> There are many more . I could tell you that occasionally putting one on teaches me something about bugs or lets me put myself in the mind of a very inventive user. Sure, occasionally, perhaps. But mostly these are just fun to watch. = 2x) and (width >= 700px)" srcset="https://unsung.aresluna.org/_media/something-seems-to-be-going-crucially-wrong-with-the-frame-rate/1.2096w.avif" type="image/avif"> = 3x) or (width >= 700px)" srcset="https://unsung.aresluna.org/_media/something-seems-to-be-going-crucially-wrong-with-the-frame-rate/1.1600w.avif" type="image/avif"> #bugs #games #humor #youtube

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マリウス 3 weeks ago

The Day WhatsApp Goes Dark

Note: As usual, tl;dr at the end. Tomorrow morning, WhatsApp goes dark, and it’s not just a short downtime, but it is a termination of the service. The servers turn off, the domains don’t resolve anymore and no mobile client is able to connect. Have you ever asked yourself what would happen in that case? What if WhatsApp actually went dark? Obviously, nobody really knows what would happen in such a case, because we haven’t experienced that situation (yet), but even though the closest analogues like the six-hour Meta outage in October 2021, and Brazil’s 12-hour court-ordered shutdown in December 2015 were measured in hours, not days, those already produced effects that journalists described as “apocalyptic” . We can try to extrapolate what happened throughout events like those to see what “global catastrophe scenario” could theoretically look like. Because whether you believe it or not, WhatsApp is more than just a messenger , and one example that makes this pretty obvious came from the Forbes editor José Caparroso , who wrote during the 2021 blackout that … Latin America lives on WhatsApp . I am surprised by so many people underestimating how catastrophic this downfall has been. But before we dive into this thought experiment, however, it’s worth establishing what we’re actually talking about, as readers in most of Europe and North America underestimate WhatsApp by an order of magnitude, primarily because in those markets it functions as one platforms among many. That is, however, not how the rest of the planet works. Note: This thought experiment is not only based on some abstract numbers and studies, but upon my own experience of how WhatsApp is being used in e.g. the global south on a day to day basis. During my travels I think I’ve pretty much “seen it all” , with for example broadband technicians taking photos of the stickers on the backside of WiFi routers/modems, that show the hardware address and login credentials (on their phones), and sending them via WhatsApp to themselves, only so they can open them on WhatsApp Web (on their work laptops), in order to upload them into the ISP’s technical service portal. It is frankly mind-boggling what sort of tasks WhatsApp has become a Swiss army knife for in those countries, whether it’s as a file transfer platform for sensitive documents, or as a full-blown hotline for critical services and infrastructure. Let’s start by understanding the sheer scale of WhatsApp . The Meta owned and operated messenger has roughly 3.3 billion monthly active users as of early 2026, which is about 40% of every human alive, and somewhere north of 60% of every human with a smartphone. The platform processes more than 100 billion messages per day , out of which around 7 billion are voice messages. On top of that, users place around 5.5 billion voice calls and 2.4 billion video calls per month , which boils down to more than 2 billion minutes of voice and video traffic every 24 hours. To put this in perspective, the global SMS network, at its peak in 2012, handled about 23 billion messages per day across every carrier on Earth. WhatsApp does four to five times that volume on its own, every day, on a service that is (at least at the consumer layer) “free” . However, if we look deeper into the country-level breakdown, it becomes clear that WhatsApp usage isn’t evenly distributed across the globe. India has between 535 million and 596 million monthly active users , and regardless of whether we pick the higher number or we stick with the more conservative estimate, it is the largest single national user base on any messaging platform anywhere. Brazil has about 148 million users, and the app is installed on roughly 99% of the country’s smartphones. And 93% of those users open the app daily . Indonesia has about 112 million users, with WhatsApp being the leading messaging platform in the country, and in Zimbabwe WhatsApp alone accounts for roughly 44–50% of all mobile internet traffic . In Lebanon more than four in five adults use it , making it the dominant communications channel during multiple national crises. In a great many countries, WhatsApp is not simply a service on the internet, it actually is the internet for most practical purposes. WhatsApp Business now has more than 200 million businesses on the platform globally , with around 50 million small and medium-sized enterprises using it as their primary customer channel. In India and Brazil, roughly 80% of small businesses use WhatsApp to communicate with customers. In Brazil specifically, 96% of businesses rate WhatsApp as their primary communication tool, and a joint study by Fundação Getulio Vargas and Sebrae , Brazil’s main small-business support organisation, found that 70% of Brazilian small companies rely on the Meta -owned trinity ( WhatsApp , Instagram , Messenger ) as their marketplace. Globally, around $45 billion in commerce is expected to flow through WhatsApp in 2026 . Click-to-WhatsApp advertisements alone generate roughly $10 billion per year for Meta . About 175 million customers send messages to WhatsApp Business accounts every single day. And then there’s payments. In India, WhatsApp Pay is a small player in the UPI with about 67 million transactions per month against UPI’s 18 billion monthly volume, but in absolute terms, that’s still an enormous number of transactions. In Brazil, WhatsApp Pay is integrated with local card and bank rails and is used by transit operators ( Vai de Bus , for instance, sells passes via WhatsApp ), banks, and merchants. Across Africa, fintech overlays on WhatsApp , like Finnova in Nigeria, or Azza in Nigeria, Kenya, and South Africa, are processing crypto and conventional payments at significant volumes. Besides being a chat platform, a marketplace and a payment processor, WhatsApp is also being used as critical clinical infrastructure across the global south. A three-year programme at UCLA’s David Geffen School of Medicine paired subspecialists in Los Angeles with clinicians at Partners in Hope Medical Center in Lilongwe, Malawi, via WhatsApp groups. 89% of submitting clinicians and 71% of expert respondents reported that the case discussions improved medical education and patient outcomes. In the Eastern Cape of South Africa , WhatsApp groups serve as the primary continuing-medical-education channel for HIV and TB management in rural clinics where specialists are days away. In Haiti, WhatsApp groups coordinate emergency department operations at Hôpital Universitaire de Mirebalais , including mass-casualty alerts, security updates, and clinical decisions. In Zambia, IntraHealth International runs nurse and midwife mentoring networks over WhatsApp . In Brazil, the link between Zika virus infection and microcephaly was tracked partly through WhatsApp groups of paediatricians comparing cases. Another critical field that runs on Meta ’s infrastructure is disaster response. The World Bank documented that during 2014’s Cyclone Hudhud in Andhra Pradesh, India , the Public Works Department restored connectivity to a 1.8-million-person city primarily by coordinating engineers through a closed WhatsApp group with the District Magistrate in it, without any formal meetings and orders, which ultimately led to most roads becoming functional within three to four days. During the 2023 Turkey earthquakes, volunteer-formed WhatsApp networks processed 5,800+ messages in one week for needs assessment and rescue, and in Syria, the White Helmets have run an emergency dispatch system over WhatsApp since 2021, because the country’s emergency number infrastructure is largely destroyed and WhatsApp ’s compression algorithms work where almost nothing else does. It’s not just individual organisations, but even whole governments are dependent on Meta . Buenos Aires for example ran a COVID-symptom triage chatbot on WhatsApp , and Lebanon’s public health ministry launched an automated WhatsApp service in April 2020 to disseminate updates on the pandemic. India, on the other hand, offers metro tickets, government services, and bill payments through WhatsApp chat interfaces . On top of that, for example, the Philippines’ UAE consulate operates consular emergency hotlines on, you guessed it, WhatsApp . Last but not least, there’s migration. Roughly a quarter-billion people live outside their country of birth. Most of them use WhatsApp as their primary connection to family, because international SMS is expensive and unreliable and Skype is, well, dead. Multiple peer-reviewed studies on Trinidadian , Pakistani, Ghanaian , Polish, and Kenyan diasporas also converge on the same finding of WhatsApp being the primary technology of transnational family life in 2026. So to go back to our initial thought, let’s imagine WhatsApp shutting down in an instant, with this dependency graph in mind. What follows is a hypothetical scenario sketched from the documented impacts of past (shorter) outages, scaled up by the duration and finality of the event, and informed by the dependency layers described above. It’s a scenario and not an actual prediction. The shutdown hits during European afternoon, which means American morning, Indian evening, East African afternoon, and Indonesian late evening. The first signals show up on Downdetector and on non- Meta competitors. In 2021, the six-hour outage generated 14 million reports inside the first few hours, but this time the number is likely much larger. Behaviour inside the first hour is uneven and largely confused. In most places, users assume it’s a routing problem, a local carrier issue, or a phone bug. They restart the app, then their phone, then their router, then they check Twitter X , Instagram , TikTok , Telegram , maybe Signal , or Facebook Messenger , depending on what they have installed. Telegram and Signal both see app-store download spikes within the first 30 minutes, as it happened during the 2021 outage, with Signal reportedly adding “millions” of users that day . The first noticeable failures show up in commerce. A food-truck operator in São Paulo who takes orders via WhatsApp can no longer receive them. A small clothing brand in Mumbai whose entire sales pipeline runs through Click-to-WhatsApp advertisements sees its ad spend continuing to bill while the conversation endpoint returns errors. In Hong Kong, a logistics coordinator who confirms container pickups via WhatsApp loses the day’s confirmation chain. In Idlib, Syria, the White Helmets dispatch room realises within minutes that emergency calls are not coming in, and civilians have no fallback channel. It is likely that three things start happening in parallel. First, mass migration to apps like Telegram , Signal , and to a lesser extent Messages ( iMessage ), Viber , and Line . Signal ’s servers, which are run on a fraction of WhatsApp ’s infrastructure, are not designed for an inrush of hundreds of millions of new accounts and start to degrade in some regions. Telegram , which has spent a decade preparing for exactly this scenario, holds up better but still struggles with its own issues. Ultimately none of the alternatives are suitable for the people who had built their workflows on WhatsApp . The second thing that happens is commercial collapse , which is the biggest 12-hour story, but still largely invisible from Western media. In Brazil, Indonesia, Nigeria, India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Vietnam, Mexico, and probably 50 other countries, the small businesses that route everything from orders and prices, and photos of goods, to delivery confirmations, and payments, through WhatsApp have lost their primary revenue channel. A clothing brand in Ireland reportedly lost thousands of euros in a single afternoon during the 2021 six-hour outage. Multiply this by twelve hours and by the entire tail of informal commerce that lives on the platform and the figure runs into the billions. The third thing is health-system stress . Group consults that normally take an hour over WhatsApp become almost impossible. The Eastern Cape HIV-management network in South Africa, the Malawi-UCLA clinical link, the Haitian ED coordination groups, the Zambian rural-nurse mentoring channels, all degrade simultaneously, and while mortality consequences are not yet visible, they are happening nonetheless. In several countries, government officials begin issuing statements through whatever channel is still functioning. After the first 24 hours it becomes clear that the impact this situation has is roughly inversely proportional to a country’s investment in alternative digital infrastructure. The United States and Western Europe are mildly inconvenienced, and India is moderately disrupted, mainly because the country has built duplicate rails, hence UPI runs over many apps. After all, SMS still works, alternative payment apps exist, and government services have their own portals. However, countries like Brazil, Argentina, Mexico, and most of sub-Saharan Africa, on the other hand, are in serious trouble. In Brazil, by the end of day one, the financial press is comparing the situation to a partial shutdown of the national payments system. Pix transfers still work, as those run over the central bank’s infrastructure and not WhatsApp ’s, but the merchant-customer communication layer that drives Pix transactions for millions of small operators is offline. The same is true in Argentina, where the inflation-driven culture of constant price renegotiation between vendors and customers happens, in practice, almost entirely on WhatsApp . Another area that starts to fail is migrant remittance. People working in the Gulf, North America, or Europe typically coordinate transfers with their families via WhatsApp , where they confirm the recipient’s details, send screenshots of receipts, or sometimes route the money through informal Hawala -style networks where trust is established and maintained by daily messaging. These workflows don’t fail completely on day one, but they slow and break in ways that don’t show up in formal remittance statistics for another week or two. In Latin America, the first major political consequence appears in the form of misinformation that previously circulated within closed WhatsApp groups , which now has nowhere to go and starts spilling onto other platforms. By the end of day one, more than 100 million people have created Signal or Telegram accounts. Both apps experience their first significant performance degradation events. The labour-market consequences start showing up. In India, where WhatsApp is the de facto recruiting and onboarding tool for huge segments of the informal economy, gig workers can’t be reached for shifts. Delivery platforms like Swiggy , Zomato , Dunzo , and their international equivalents, see their dispatch coordination degrade. Some of these companies have parallel in-app messaging, but many have leaned hard on WhatsApp because it was cheaper. Schools also begin to feel it, because in many countries, including India, Brazil, South Africa, Kenya, Nigeria, the Philippines, Indonesia, and much of the Middle East, parent-teacher communication runs over WhatsApp groups. Two days in, schools that have not made the switch to other channels are operating partially blind, and parents are not getting closure notifications, transport updates, fee reminders, or exam schedule changes. In countries with weak alternative communication infrastructure, the second-order effect is mid-week absenteeism as parents simply don’t know whether school is open. On top of it all, Healthcare is also heavily impacted. For example, the Haiti emergency-department-style coordination groups have now had 48 hours to find alternatives, and they have, mostly, but the transition has costs. Case discussions that were asynchronous and 24/7 on WhatsApp are now synchronous and harder to schedule, and rural clinicians in places like the Eastern Cape, Lilongwe, or the highlands of Nepal are once again practising in the relative isolation that WhatsApp ’s group-call and group-message features had alleviated. In several documented studies, isolation correlates with diagnostic delays and worse patient outcomes. In Syria, the White Helmets switch to a patchwork of Signal , SMS where it works, and physical runners, and response times degrade significantly. At this point things start to get political. In a number of countries, including Brazil, India, Indonesia, Nigeria, the Philippines, and South Africa, the question stops being “what is Meta doing” and starts being “why did we let one foreign company become this central” . Telecom operators in several countries pitch the moment as an opportunity to push their own messaging products, most of which have been moribund since 2014, but the pitches fail because nobody trusts the carriers, because those carriers have been quietly delighted to see WhatsApp gone, given that it eroded their SMS and voice revenue for a decade. In a few markets, regulators float emergency-decree-style proposals to nationalise messaging infrastructure or build sovereign alternatives. And while most of these proposals are clearly performative, some are not. India and Brazil both have working national digital identity and payments stacks that could, in principle, host a public messaging layer. It remains to be seen, though, whether the political will to build one persists past the first month. Public health authorities in Lebanon, Buenos Aires, the Philippines, and several African countries are now running emergency communication operations across multiple fallback channels. None of them work as well as WhatsApp did and things like vaccination schedules are missed, and appointment reminders fail. Some clinics see patient no-show rates rise by 30–40% versus baseline. Not because WhatsApp is superior to its competitors, but simply because humans need a long time to adjust to the alternatives that are being put in place. Also, crime patterns shift in interesting ways. A Conflict Sensitivity Resource Facility report on South Sudan, and PeaceRep work on Somalia, both documented that WhatsApp groups were used for both peace-building and for coordinating violence. Removing the platform doesn’t remove either function, as both migrate to other channels, but the migration takes time, and during the transition, coordination of all kinds becomes harder. In several markets, online ad spend collapses because Click-to-WhatsApp ads (a $10B/year business) have no destination, and Meta ’s stock price has already done what you’d expect it to do. The migration to alternatives, mostly Telegram and Signal , with regional pockets going to Line , KakaoTalk , WeChat , Messages ( iMessage ), RCS , and a long tail of smaller apps, has now hit critical mass in most of the world. The migration has not been clean, and group chats with over 200 members have, in practice, often migrated as group chats with around 40 members, because not everyone moved at the same time or to the same app. For business communication, the new world is as fragmented as it gets. A Brazilian shopkeeper who used to take all orders on WhatsApp now has to manage Telegram , Signal , Instagram DMs (still up, but reduced after Meta ’s reputational damage), and SMS. Customer-acquisition costs rise, and customer-retention drops, and several reporters publish stories on small businesses that have permanently closed. For healthcare, the migration is more orderly because the user base is smaller and more motivated. Most major peer-support networks, like the Malawi-UCLA , the Eastern Cape HIV , the Zambia nursing , and the Haiti emergency have stable new homes. The five-day disruption produced measurable degradation, and it is not yet possible to quantify the mortality and morbidity impact. In Syria, the White Helmets have built a partial replacement on Signal and on a custom dispatching tool that their engineers had been prototyping. It works less well than what they had, because the compression behaviour that made WhatsApp viable in low-bandwidth, intermittently-connected environments is hard to replicate. Hence, some dispatches are now arriving via paper notes. Not because decentralized mesh networks don’t exist, but simply because nobody in these organizations has the expertise to implement these alternatives, especially within such a short period of time. The first credible economic estimates of the shutdown’s cost reach the tens of billions of dollars and continue to rise. The estimates are dominated by long-tail effects in emerging markets that are hard to measure precisely. A week in, the question has shifted from “When does WhatsApp come back?” to “What does the world look like without it?” and a growing fraction of the user base assumes it isn’t coming back, so behaviour begins adapting accordingly. Several governments, including Brazil, India, and the EU as a bloc, have announced formal investigations or task forces into how to prevent this from happening again. As usual, however, none of them will produce anything actionable within years. The longer-term effects, that you can already see the shape of by day seven are a measurable productivity hit in emerging markets, particularly for informal-sector businesses, a consumer trust impact across the entire Meta product family, a wave of WhatsApp-replacement startups, most of which will fail due to network effects and generally bad engineering, and the painful realisation that a free product is not the same thing as a public good. Some estimates from prior outage studies suggest that a six-hour WhatsApp outage cost the global economy hundreds of millions of dollars per hour in lost SME activity, weighted heavily toward Latin America, South Asia, and Africa. Extrapolated over seven days and weighted for cascading effects, the seven-day damage is in the tens of billions, possibly higher. This thought experiment is not about Meta eventually shutting down WhatsApp , as it almost certainly won’t do so on its own, given how big of a lever the platform is for the company. In fact, Meta is moving in the opposite direction, as it is building WhatsApp Business into a $45 billion commerce platform, integrating it with payments, and turning ads into one of its fastest-growing revenue lines. WhatsApp is too valuable to Meta to switch off voluntarily, and the regulatory regimes in the countries that depend on it most are nowhere near coordinated enough to force a switch away from it or even just ban it outright. The point is that we have built a planet-spanning piece of communication infrastructure whose ownership, governance, and continuity are concentrated in a single American corporation, that is led by people with questionable values and beliefs, which all in all is a state of affairs that has no historical precedent. Sure, there are other US-based companies that “own digital communications” , like Twitter X and many others, albeit I’d argue that none of those platforms are so engrained into everyday life across many (predominantly developing) nations as WhatsApp is today. The closest analogue in scale is the global SMS network of the early 2000s, which, however, was federated, run by hundreds of carriers and governed by an open standard (GSM/3GPP). SMS was never under the unilateral control of any single entity, despite many carries enjoying a defacto monopoly in their respective home markets. WhatsApp , on the other hand, is a single proprietary protocol, with a single operator, optimised increasingly for the commercial interests of that operator, and treated by the rest of the world (governments, hospitals, schools, small businesses, families separated by borders) as a public utility. The seven-day scenario above is an exercise in realising this dependency. Meta has no public-service mandate and WhatsApp ’s terms of service explicitly disclaim any commitment to availability. Yet a meaningful fraction of the medical communication, emergency coordination, family contact, and small-business activity of the global south runs on top of this disclaimed-availability infrastructure. At this point the LinkedIn thought-leadership crowd would tell you the answer is “diversification” or “resilience” or “multi-channel strategy” and add an inspirational quote alongside the ChatGPT -inserted emojis. Telling a Karachi tailor with 14 customers in a WhatsApp group to “diversify their customer-communication stack” does nothing to solve the problem. The infrastructure they depend on was built and made free at the point of use by a corporation that calculated, correctly, that owning that infrastructure was worth more than charging for it. The bill is paid in attention, in advertising, in data, and in the asymmetric power Meta now holds over a substantial fraction of global communication. While the shutdown will (sadly) not happen any time soon, the dependency, however, exists, and the thought experiment is worth running occasionally (with other services as well… looking at you, Google Mail !) because this exact dependency is what should push us to look for alternatives, and not the implausible event that would make it visible. Network effects may be the biggest drivers for this unhealthy dependency, but I believe that each and every person has the ability to make an impact within their families, their friend-circles and their communities, by choosing to use anything but WhatsApp as their main communications channel, ideally a self-hosted alternative . For almost three decades now we’ve had XMPP available to us, with popular and capable implementations like ejabberd , Prosody , and Snikket existing as open-source software that is ready to be used for communications platforms of any size. As a matter of fact, WhatsApp uses XMPP behind the scenes and is in fact built upon the same great technology stack used by ejabberd . For a “lower-level” alternative, there’s the good ol’ IRC that has been around for almost four decades and that is still thriving . Both of these open standards would allow communities, organisations and even whole governments to build public infrastructure that could in large parts replace WhatsApp . PS: Are you a Jabber user already? Come join the community channel !

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annie's blog 3 weeks ago

I have no idea who celebrities are anymore

Julia Roberts? She was in that one movie with that guy, and the other one with the other guy, and like 100 more. Whatever. But she’s old news. Like all the other celebrity names I actually recognize, which isn’t a lot, but is some. Just a minute ago a headline floated by: Person A is doing Thing with Person B, what will Person C think? I have no idea: Who the people are, their relationship or lack thereof, their various claims to fame. I do not possess any crumbs of context helping me interpret the situation or nod knowingly about what C’s thoughts will be. I Got Nothing. Which is fine. Preferable, even. I’ve never been a very good fan, it’s just not my thing. But cultural knowledge always seeps in. You just know some stuff like who’s famous and why, and you even have some sort of opinion about them. Until you don’t. I have reached the don’t point. It’s peaceful here.

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Short Reflection on being Offline for 24 hours

There are, I think two reactions to the title of this post. One is to scoff at how short a time 24 hours really is; something barely worth mentioning. But another, perhaps less voiced reaction is to think "wow, I can't remember when I last did that..." When I last did this it was involuntary - I was living in a shack in the mountains and a sheep had chewed through the cable connecting me to the satellite dish, which was in turn connecting me to the web. And so I spent a couple of weekends net-less (with weekdays at a co-working space so I could keep in contact with my client). But I can remember kind of enjoying it, reading things I claimed I would get round to reading but never did, and thinking more deeply. "Maybe I should make it a regular thing" I thought, "just to reset things and get a new perspective...". That was some six years ago, and the most I'd managed since then is maybe an hour of self-imposed internet exile. But things have been building recently. Having a three your old who - while she does enjoy a cheeky music video or three - is nevertheless content to do things like read, draw, and play with blocks through her day made me reflect. How much was she seeing her father doom scrolling with the excuse of "I just need a break"? Why couldn't I be more like her, and how long until she was more like me? I took note of the contemporary moral panic around kids and smart phones, and I deemed it pointless if society at large was addicted; the generation who had chided us millenials for "always TXTing" on our monochrome nokias were now grey, wisened, and often more addicted to contemporary devices than we ever were. But unlike the generations before or after, I at least had partial immunity from remembering old youtube with it's amateur video content and primitive skinner box mechanisms; of having some natural resistance to the more modern and extreme developments of shorts and AI thumbnails. What hope does a child have of resisting contemporary, weapons-grade slop addiction? And so I've spent the last 24 hours cut off from the internet as an experiment. Completely self imposed - just disconnected my devices and set an alarm. Once again I read more, once again I thought more deeply, and once again I liked it. My alarm will be ringing soon and I will be lying if I said I wasn't excited to re-connect. And nor am I trying to say that the internet itself as some wholly negative thing - after all, that's where the things I read come from; the best written material the world has to offer, saved to my machine. And yet despite the incredible upside of the internet, I can't help wonder if my continued resistance against its dark side might require more drastic action. I'd already quit facebook, reddit, lobsters, HN (ok...provisionally) bluesky, several discords, and most recently I'd been off youtube entirely for days. But there's always a hook back in. "I can't quit X" I tell myself, "I've met so many great people... oh what's that, tech drama? Well they surely need to hear my opinion..." My time online draws near. The ever-full needle of stranger's opinions hovers tantalisingly over my swabbed, tensed arm. Still, I like to think I've taken the first step.

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Manuel Moreale 1 months ago

Downsizing

With the 150th interview of People and Blogs now live, it’s officially time to downsize my online presence again. My digital life follows a somewhat regular rhythm and I alternate through phases of expansion, where I buy domain names, ship new projects, start newsletters, and chase a million ideas, and phases of contraction, where everything happens in reverse: domains are left to expire, projects are archived, newsletters are deleted, services are cancelled. And my recent decoupling from the web was the beginning of one of these downsizing phases. The Dealgorithmed newsletter has been deleted; the domain is not going to be renewed, and it will expire later in the year. My From the Summit newsletter and my personal newsletter have been merged into a single new newsletter called “ Thoughts and Walks ”. If you were already subscribed to one of my newsletters, you can manage your preferences from the Buttondown’s Portal and decide what type of content you want to receive. I'll write a more in depth post about my plans for the newsletter. The only project that has survived the cut—aside from this blog—is blogroll.org, and that is not going anywhere anytime soon because there are things I want to add to that site. But more on that at a later time. Decluttering is fun! It's a nice mental exercise to delete stuff and become lighter again. Thank you for keeping RSS alive. You're awesome.

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Heather Burns 1 months ago

The kids (with phones) are alright

How a four-minute video taken on a Scottish train destroyed multiple bad tech policy arguments at once.

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Unsung 1 months ago

“Relying on passengers to open the doors proved to be a bit of a curse.”

It’s Button Week here on Unsung, and here’s a 10-minute video by Jago Hazzard about the door opening/​closing buttons on London’s tube: = 2x) and (width >= 700px)" srcset="https://unsung.aresluna.org/_media/relying-on-passengers-to-open-the-doors-proved-to-be-a-bit-of-a-curse/yt1-play.2096w.avif" type="image/avif"> = 3x) or (width >= 700px)" srcset="https://unsung.aresluna.org/_media/relying-on-passengers-to-open-the-doors-proved-to-be-a-bit-of-a-curse/yt1-play.1600w.avif" type="image/avif"> We previously covered elevator buttons and the enduring myth that – at least in America – they are just “pacifiers,” disconnected from the elevator’s system. The door opening and closing buttons in London went a different, but no less complex route, having to do with changing expectations, dwell time, and air conditioning. The video also briefly covers how the subway trains changed, which is fun to see. #real world #youtube

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David Bushell 1 months ago

Behold the perfect algorithm!

1984, Minority Report, Black Mirror — bedtime stories compared to the horrors the UK Government publish, am I right? I’m led to believe “Watch this space” is the latest propaganda piece from His Majesty’s Nanny State . I haven’t read past the title but according to gaming site Dexerto, YouTube lawyers read it and YouTube ain’t happy. Poor little YouTube. The government is consulting on options, considering whether to make public service news easier to discover on sites like YouTube and TikTok, with greater prominence and with more visibility during periods of major public importance. It also seeks to discuss misinformation and online viewing habits. YouTube urges creators to fight proposed UK algorithm changes - Matthew Benson, Dexerto I glossed over the Dexerto article too. This whole thing is something about kids being hooked on Skibidi and not paying their racketeering license fee . Minecraft Let’s Plays will be spliced with a BBC impartiality report on what some fascist gammon thinks. Should the proposal become law, of course. This is somewhat of a dilemma for a guy like me. If there’s one thing I hate more than a meddling GOV.UK, that might just be Big Tech . The thought of Google et al being ruffled warms my heart like a hot cup of tea on the summer solstice. That was too many words on something I never read so I’ll get to the lede. I’m about to reveal the secret sauce that Big Tech has tried to suppress. The one true algorithm, which ironically might be their saviour. Only one parameter is required in the perfect algorithm: who I choose to follow. I’m literally providing the exact data needed to curate my feed. I know what defenders of the deceptive arts are thinking: but algorithms are proven to increase engagement! — I know, Sherlock. Do you enjoy your doomscrolling misery? Not every metric needs to be min-maxed at the expense of human health. Modern apps sucks. Modern media sucks. Stick your “algorithm”. † It’s been decades since I studied SQL and database normalisation so please have mercy. Thanks for reading! Follow me on Mastodon and Bluesky . Subscribe to my Blog and Notes or Combined feeds.

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Kev Quirk 1 months ago

This blog is written in en-GB

by Terence Eden Terrence talks about some of the wonderful idiosyncrasies of the British language and that, no, he won't be making his writing more global. Read post ➡ I really enjoyed this post and like that Terrance could have said "year sure, I'll try and be more inclusive for you non-Brits" , but he didn't. Instead he said: Here's the thing. No. [...] There's a reason for that. It is more than the language I speak; it is the culture I live in, the way that I think, and the accent I use. Love this, and I appreciate Terrance holding firm on our wonderful British culture - just like everyone should do on their blog. That's part of the fun - to learn about the idiosyncrasies of difference languages and cultures. It still surprises me that someone had the gall to leave a comment effectively saying "can you change the way you write to be more inclusive, because I don't understand some of the references, and I can't be bothered to learn." Some people... Thanks for reading this post via RSS. RSS is ace, and so are you. ❤️ You can reply to this post by email , or leave a comment .

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Unsung 1 months ago

“That’s a big number – by almost any scale other than Google’s.”

Thirteen years ago today, Google killed Google Reader. In 2023, The Verge wrote a great piece about the shutdown : Google’s feed-reading tool offered a powerful way to curate and read the internet and was beloved by its users. Reader launched in 2005, right as the blogging era went mainstream; it made a suddenly huge and sprawling web feel small and accessible and helped a generation of news obsessives and super-commenters feel like they weren’t missing anything. It wasn’t Google’s most popular app, not by a long shot, but it was one of its most beloved. In the essay, Google Reader is presented as a victim of Google+. I was at Google when Google+ was announced and can corroborate the feeling of an end of an era at the company. The first large internal presentation was a shell shock: the arrival of secrecy, bureaucracy, corporate delusion, inevitable sycophants following not-so-inevitable bozos. But perhaps it was the opposite – Google as a company would have changed anyway, and Reader just randomly ended up being among the early beloved things that stood in the way. (I mean, arguably, Google changing for the worse destroyed even Google Search since.) I am worried about the open web , but excited seeing some resurgence in RSS usage, and more and more people wanting to come back to the feeling of control, care, and intentionality that using Reader represented. Just a few months ago, Roger Wong found himself reflecting on Reader, too : What gets me is that the vision Wetherell drew on that whiteboard—a single place to follow everything you care about, organized by your taste, shared with people you trust, and non-algorithmic—still doesn’t fully exist. RSS readers are the closest thing we have, and they’re good enough that I’ve built my entire reading and writing practice around one. But the curation layer Wetherell imagined is still unfinished. I’m introducing a new tag to Unsung, software eulogies , which right now encompasses Aperture and Reader. One has to be careful about nostalgia since it has its own gravity and can corrupt as much as a runaway World of WarCraft virus . “They don’t make them like they used to” is a potent drug that can make us disinvested in shaping the future, but it is also true that, well, we don’t make software like we used to. Part of Unsung is about finding inspiration in history, and while each one of us can miss a certain era of computing, certain machines, and certain software for whatever reasons we choose to – healthy or not – I do believe we collectively miss Aperture and Reader for the right reasons that are worth listening to. #google #software eulogies #software evolution #web

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iDiallo 1 months ago

The Dating App Plot Device

I've always been interested in how dating apps work. You really only have two choices if you want to get in the business. Let's pretend for a second that we actually want people to find love. Love is such a weird thing that we don't even know how to define it properly. Ask two people what it means, and you will get five plausible definitions. If you approach it programmatically, then you will likely look into some measurable metrics to match people and then hope that love emerges somehow. In my quest to find what the ideal dating app would look like, I interviewed a couple of my friends that use those apps. I quickly gave up when I realized that I don't have a clue on how people actually use the apps. The first comment that threw me off was when my single friend told me of an app where she found some pretty good dates. How can you find some good dates and remain single? And what made them good? The more questions I asked, the less I understood. I guess I got lucky. I used a dating app for a brief time, and before I knew it I was married. I never got to experience "good dates". I thought when you found one, you were safe to delete the app. I never had to pay for super swipes, and other premium packages. Anyway, I'm not trying to solve dating anymore but apparently whatever I thought I knew has once again changed. A friend described the experience in a way that I thought was profound. In these apps: Men are looking for a woman who doesn't exist anymore. Women are looking for a man that never existed. This must be peak monetization strategy. Dating apps don't create the perfect match, they pick from the same pool of people that they share with every other dating app. So to make it more appealing, you have to create the appearance of the perfect partner that may only exist in your garden. Men are asked to look to the past, where women were like their grandmother. She was both strong and soft, in charge and submissive. A past that they never lived, but looks appealing through their minds' eyes. They were only toddlers when grandma took care of them. Who doesn't love grandma. Women are looking for a tall rich guy who is both CEO and able to change diapers. He is at the grocery store, but he is also at the gym. He is at work, but is available at a moment's notice. At least that's how he is portrayed on social media. The Giga family Grandma, God rest her soul, has passed away. We don't know who she was and how she became the loving person we knew. Those rich gym CEO guys only exist on instagram. They are a convenient plot device that keeps you swiping and spending. I don't know if there will ever be a better way to match people, but I think technology has already solved the connection problem. We can connect. But if we want to make those connections any stronger and fit into one of those loose definitions of love, then we have to put the device away and talk to one another. Help people find a match, and they will never come back Make people pay and keep them on the platform as long as possible.

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Stratechery 1 months ago

Summer Break: Week of June 29

Stratechery is on summer break the week of June 29. There will be no Weekly Article or Updates. The next Update will be on Monday, July 6. Dithering ,  Sharp Tech , and  Sharp China  will also return the week of July 6.  Greatest of All Talk  and  Asianometry  will continue to publish. The full Stratechery posting schedule is  here .

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iDiallo 1 months ago

I turned my prologue into a short video

It's hard to write a whole book. So for now at least, I've turned the prologue of my book into a short video. I hope you enjoy it.

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